The problem with this is they never really define what responsible is.From my experience, what they mean by responsible is “safe". They want some castrated man with spiked hair who never takes chances, never moves in a direction that might make them feel unsafe, never walks the path less chosen. They want a guy who is just bent to their wishes for “their dreams" ie, the house, the car, the baby, the whole nine yards.

她们所谓的责任感，到底是什么？这就是问题所在。

就我长期观察，她们所谓的“责任感”，其实就是“安全感”。

她们想要一个男人，这个男人可以任由她们摆布；

这男人从不会令她们感到不安；

这男人最好盲从大众，在人生旅程内，不会走那些崎岖小径。

她们想要一个男人，这个男人最好能依照她们的意愿行事，

最好能将她们的意愿当作自己的梦想，

最好替她们买个房子，买辆车子，养个娃儿，买一堆东西！

Nothing is wrong with those things, except that they have become the “Price For Admission" so to speak, rather than the result of two people’s love and efforts for one another. They constantly take shortcuts.

其实这也没什么。然而，她们总把这些事情当作是“爱的门票”，

而非“两人互信互爱的结果，彼此付出”的结果。

她们喜欢抄小路，而非走康庄大道。

These Women always talk about how they want someone who understands them. By this, i take it to mean they want an extension of their spoiling family or old boyfriends (Plan B… but still wait around) who will put up with their temper tantrums, immaturity, and stupidity.These women are basically in the market for either daddy or their older brother, someone who is used to their bullshit.

台湾女人总希望某人可以了解自己；

换句话说，她们就是想要有一个人，能像自己的家人和男朋友一样，

忍受自己的坏脾气、不成熟、还有愚蠢。

这些女人基本上没什么市场，除了自己老爹和哥哥之外，

没人受得了她们的鸟脾气。